In the pool of potential mates comes a man you may not have considered before, a man of substance, quietude and stability, a cerebral creature with a culture all his own. In short, a geek.

Why Geeks Rule:

• They are generally available.
• Other women will tend not to steal them.
• They can fix things.
• Your parents will love them.
• They’re smart.

Geeks are sensitive and caring lovers and husbands. If you can hang with the techno-lifestyle, they make the best mates. They are the most attractive people, not flashy or hunky, but the kind who get cuter and more alluring over time. You might notice that these men harbor some strange ideas about how the world works and some particularly strange ideas about women. There is a reason for this. It is because they’ve had limited interpersonal experience. You do have to monitor your geek for weight gain; however, remember that most of their days are spent sitting and staring at a monitor.

The greatest thing about your geek’s buddies is that you can feel secure in setting them up with your girlfriends. They may feel awkward around females at first, so don’t overwhelm them. In time they will come out of their shell and realize that you are into the same things they are. Because they have been so abused and ignored by society, many geeks have gone underground.

You may actually know some and just haven’t noticed them. They often feel resentful, and misunderstood, and it is important to realize this as you grow closer to them. Don’t ever try to force the issue, or make crazy demands that he choose between his computer and you. Remember, his computer has been there for him his whole life; you are a new interloper he hasn’t quite grasped yet.